Dearly beloved, we have come together in the presence of God to witness and
bless the joining together of this man and this woman in holy matrimony.
The bond and covenant of marriage was established by God in creation. Our Lord
Jesus Christ adorned this manner of life by being present at and performing a
miracle at a wedding in Cana of Galilee.
Marriage signifies to us the mystery of the union between Christ and His church
and scripture commends marriage to be honorable among all people.
The union of husband and wife in heart and body and mind is intended by God for
their mutual joy, for the help and comfort given one another in times of prosperity
and adversity, and when it is God's will, for the birth of children and their nurture in
the knowledge and love of the Lord.
Therefore, marriage is not to be entered into lightly, but with a great deal of
forethought, reverently, deliberately and for the purposes for which it was instituted
by God.
We always presume when we see two people getting married that they are in love
with each other.
But there are a lot of mistaken ideas in the world today about what love is and
what love is not, and what love does and what love does not do. There is a
passage in the Bible that many people call the Love Chapter. It is I Corinthians 13.
A modern version of a portion of that chapter says:
“Love is very patient, very kind. Love knows know jealousy, makes no parade,
gives itself not to arrogance. Love is never rude, never selfish, never resentful.
Love is never glad when others go wrong. Love is gladdened by goodness. Always
slow to criticize, always eager to believe the best, always hopeful, always patient.
Love never fails.
To Groom: __________, will you have this woman to be your wife, to live together
in the covenant of marriage? Do you promise to love her, honor her and comfort
her in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others, do you promise to be
faithful to her for as long as you both shall live?
Groom: I do.
To Bride: ______________, will you have this man to be your husband, to live
together in the covenant of marriage. Do you promise to love him, honor him and
comfort him in sickness and in health, for forsaking all others, do you promise to
be faithful to him for as long as you both shall live?
Bride: I do.
Couple will now face each other, hold hands, and repeat vows in short phrases as
provided by the minister.
Exchange of Rings, with short phrases repeated after the minister.
Brief prayer of blessing on rings and marriage, led by minister.
Pronouncement by minister: Inasmuch as both of you have consented together in
marriage, and have witnessed your desire to be married, and further committed
yourselves one to the other, by the taking of these vows, by giving and receiving of
the rings, and by the joining of your hands, I now pronounce you husband and
wife. What God has joined together, let no one put asunder.
To Groom: You may kiss your bride.
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